Sunday, April 25, 2010

move on to what will surely be better territory.

'he's just not that into me' that im reading now really amazed me.
some things that you must know how a guy thinks and how girls shouldnt waste any time on guys that are really just not into you. face it girls.

'men are not complicated, although we'd like you to think we are. we are driven by sex, although we like to pretend otherwise. and sadly (and most embarrassingly), we would rather lose an arm out a city bus window than tell you simply,"you are not the one." we are quite sure you will kill us or yourself or both-or even worse, cry and yell at us. we are pathetic. but the fact remains, even though we may not be saying it, we are absolutely showing it all the time.
if a dude isnt calling you when he says he will, or making sure you know that he's dating you, then you already have your answer. stop making excuses for him;his actions are screaming the truth: he's just not that into you.'

'...because those movies dont get made, because thats not what love is like. people are inspired to do remarkable things to find and be with the one they love. big movies are made about it, and every relationship you admire bursts with a greatness that you hope for in chance you'll have of getting it. you're worth it.'

-'he's just not into you if he's not asking you out, because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out.'
'men find it satisfying to get what they want. if we want you, we will find you. if you dont think you gave him enough time to notice you, take the time it took you to notice him and divide it by half.'
'just because you like to lead doesnt mean he wants to dance. some traditions are born of nature and last through time for a reason.'
'dont get tricked into asking him out. if he likes you, he'll do the asking.'
'men dont forget how much they like you. so put down the phone.'

-'he's just not that into you if he's not calling you. men know how to use the phone.'
'oh sure, they say they're busy. they say they didnt have even a moment in their insanely busy day to pick p the phone. bullshit. we may try to make you think differently, but we men are just like you. we like taking a break from our gnerally mundane day to talk to someone we like. it makes us happy. and we like to be happy. just like you. if i were into you, you would be the bright spot in my horribly busy day. which would be a day that i would never be too busy to call you.'
'yes, it seems like its just a machine that transmits voice waves over wires and comes in different styles, like cordless, cellular, handheld, and rotary, but the truth is, the phone has officially reached a new high in relationship symbolism. is a phone call just a phone call, or is it really the almighty representation of how much he really cares about you? and a good man will know that and use this handy telecommunciation device accordingly. e-mails need not apply.'
'the word "busy" is a load of crap and is often used by assholes. the word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. it seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didnt care enough to call. remember: men are never too busy to get what they want.'
'"busy" is another word for "asshole." "asshole" is another word for the guy you're dating'
'you deserve a fucking phone call.'

okay, thats how much i noted when i read the first two chapters.
will update the rest that i noted till chapter 5 tmr since someone's hurrying me.
i find this book uber helpful, it informs you whether a guy is serious about you or just treating you like you're dispensible.
well, and remind girls to really learn and accept the mere fact that not all guys do what they preach and thats when you know, you should delete him both from your list and from your mind.

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