Presumptious

recently i was talking to another preggy working mum (PWM)
and i came to realize different PWM has different expectations of how others need to treat themselves

treat them nice
treat them better
treat them exceptional
treat them with more patience
treat them with more understanding

i guess there's really not a case of right or wrong here
but only our expectations of ourselves
how we see ourselves as PWM

in another case of another PWM
i guess she's more similar to me in that sense
that we dont expect any exceptions to ourselves
though perhaps we have more understanding bosses and colleagues

but anyways,
PWM vs FTWM
its gonna be another set of challenges
if we keep thinking
people should be taking care of us
more than they should

just because an addition of roles in society

i just beg to differ though.

but we are all entitled to how we think, isnt it?

this beautiful chaos that we have created to disrupt our life

...is turning 5 months old next week on.


its true that when they all say
'the days are long but the years are short'.

im not crying,
you are.

"Dear mom, Thank you for being my safe zone.

I know you may want to sleep alone in a good position, but I feel so safe sleeping next to you. I know you may want me to play on the floor alone, but I love when you do it with me. I know you may want me to sleep longer, but I'm just so afraid you’re not there - so I have to check. I know you may want me to stop cry sometimes but it's the only language I have and I need you to listen.

So, dear Mom, I promise I will grow up soon and don't need you as much anymore. So I hope we can cuddle a lot more, just a little bit longer."

dedicating to those who needs a breath in this world to stay alive

林俊杰

feat. Jason Mraz

I Am Alive

 

 

When I fear the sky might fall;
and no one will hear my call
I take a breath and see;
I've all the strength I need

Days won't be the same; Everything will change
Even mountains over time; must get redefined

I know, I know – life's worth living
I Keep on, I keep on – giving
I'm giving it all I got; Giving it my best shot

I Get up, get up – and keep on trying;
There is no shame in crying
Yesterdays are gone;
I have what it takes I have what it takes– to Hold on!

I am brave and strong; I am every song
I am here to shine;
And I'm not afraid to fly

I am loveable; I am invincible
I am tough enough; And I'm ready to catch
the falling skyyyy…

I am alive.

I am alive.

Yes I am.

The wind is in my face; and I'm feeling out of place
It's me against the entire human race;
I know the dreams I chase
They will not be erased; They are my saving grace

 

I'm gonna make it

I know, I know – life's worth living
I keep on, I keep on – giving
I'm giving it all I got; Giving it my best shot

I get up, get up – and keep on trying;
There is no shame in crying
Yesterdays are gone;
I have what it takes
I have what it takes – to hold on

I am brave and strong; I am every song
I am here to shine; I'm not afraid to fly
I am loveable; I am invincible
And I am tough enough; And I'm ready to catch
that falling sky

I am brave and strong; I am every song
I am here to shine; I'm not afraid to fly
I am loveable;
I'm invincible
And I am tough enough; And I'm ready to catch
the falling sky

I am alive

I am alive

I am alive

Yes I am